This summer I got a customer service job at a gas station. It got me use to breif, meaningless encounters where random chatting is suppose to take place, as well as talking to people despite what I may think of them (treating beautiful people and people with the appearence of trailer trash as equals in conversation).
So, in mid-June I went to my bank and there was a new girl training there who looked really sweet. She had to keep on asking questions of the person who waited on me and I got to watch her for a bit because of this. I'd been in the same position less than a week before so I could emphasize.
Randomly I decided it was time for me to pick myself up and start dating again, so I worked my butt off that day, and managed to get out of work 2 hours early so I could get to the bank before it closed. She said hi to me, and I marched right up to her and told her I withdrew money yesterday but there was a problem, because she hadn't helped me spend any of. Asked if she'd like to see a movie sometime right after.
Never had that much guts in my life. 
She said yes but she was moving to go back to college soon. Turns out we go to the same place so we exchanged names(as students all we need is their name to email someone). That was one week ago. She said she was at least busy over the weekend so I figured I woulkdn't push my luck and not make contact again until at least monday.
I went back to her work tuesday but she was out to lunch so I said I would email her, which I did about 5 hours later. She was online when I started writing it but was off before I sent it, and read it a few hours after. (I'm not a crazy stalker its just our university email system makes that info just a right click away, and its my 'new toy'
) Haven't gotten a reply as of yet, and its sucking my confidence away a bit. One of my friends says from what I said she sounds like a shy person at heart so maybe she didn't know what to say to me asking when and what she might like to do.
Not sure if I should stop in and see her today. I'll be in the area for an appointment and figured I'd stop in to talk but I'm not sure if I am pushing too much, too hard.
Its just, one of my personal goals is to have at least one date before college starts again in about a week, so I worry I'm being a bother somehow.
Be non-specific about what it is you're doing.
