Moving...

Post by **Best First** » Fri Apr 15, 2005 4:03 pm

Moving out of manchester this weekend. Finding the whole thing v emotional.

House Clearance company offered me £150 for just about all the furniture. ha. Not got much option but to take it though...

Meeting the ex for coffee tomorrow... probably not a good idea. sigh.

****ing hate all this. Wish it was all a bad dream.

Sorry to vent.

saysadie · Post by **saysadie** » Fri Apr 15, 2005 4:24 pm

Best First wrote:Sorry to vent.

Hey no problem dude. Sounds rough.

Good luck with the move.

Post by **Denyer** » Fri Apr 15, 2005 4:34 pm

Mmm, I think I'd be staying away from ex until move was over and all settled, assuming the plan was to keep any kind of contact. If it wasn't, would be more up for saying goodbyes.

Best First wrote:House Clearance company offered me £150 for just about all the furniture. ha. Not got much option but to take it though...

Considering the sum involved, is there a refuge charity that you could just give it to, save it going into the hands of profiteering bastards?

*hug*

Impactor returns 2.0 · Post by **Impactor returns 2.0** » Fri Apr 15, 2005 5:02 pm

Best First wrote:Moving out of manchester this weekend. Finding the whole thing v emotional.

House Clearance company offered me £150 for just about all the furniture. ha. Not got much option but to take it though...

Meeting the ex for coffee tomorrow... probably not a good idea. sigh.

****ing hate all this. Wish it was all a bad dream.

Sorry to vent.

dude i know how you feel belive me.

FOr 8 weeks now me and my ex have been in an emotional roller coaster, on wednesday she got a bit drunk, and we were all having a laugh, then went potty, now she never wants to see me again, for no apparent reason.

Were going to meet to say goodbye as I need closure if shes really going to leave me.

I love her with every part of my body, I think about dying alot.

Autobloke · Post by **Autobloke** » Fri Apr 15, 2005 5:12 pm

Impactor returns 2.0 wrote:I love her with every part of my body, I think about dying alot.

As long as you're just thinking and not doing. I'm used to be clinically depressed, now I'm just generally depressed, so things WILL get better.

Also, when you say every part of your body, does that include stuff like knees and bellybutton?

Impactor returns 2.0 · Post by **Impactor returns 2.0** » Fri Apr 15, 2005 5:32 pm

i was clincally depressed, think i probably still am, its a constant struggle. I think if I didnt have a family, like mum dad and my sister, I would have killed myself by now.
SOme days I dont like living.

I also had my uni interview today. which went okay but im still depressed

Post by **Best First** » Fri Apr 15, 2005 6:01 pm

Denyer wrote:Mmm, I think I'd be staying away from ex until move was over and all settled, assuming the plan was to keep any kind of contact. If it wasn't, would be more up for saying goodbyes.

i'm not planning on coming back here any time soon... maybe down the line when i feel differently, but after tomorrow she is free to get in touch but a far as i am concerend it will be the coursary annual cards and thats about it for the forseeable

Best First wrote:House Clearance company offered me £150 for just about all the furniture. ha. Not got much option but to take it though...
Considering the sum involved, is there a refuge charity that you could just give it to, save it going into the hands of profiteering bastards?

i did look into it briefly to no real avail - i don't have enough time. The whole thing has been made a lot harder by only being here the occasional weekend. Plus the £150 just about covers the van hire to get all the toys and comics (and some other stuff) that i want to sell down to woking.

*hug*

cheers.

Impy... sorry dude. really really sorry. here to empathise if you need.

Impactor returns 2.0 · Post by **Impactor returns 2.0** » Fri Apr 15, 2005 6:23 pm

BF - mate I know how it is, ive been foul tempered and am at a loss for many words lately.

Its got me drainned completely, I wish I could say somthing, but I havent the strength to anymore. all I can say is I know how you feel.
take care.

Post by **Best First** » Fri Apr 15, 2005 6:28 pm

you too Champ.

Post by **snarl** » Fri Apr 15, 2005 6:31 pm

If nothing else, I think I'm a ****** sound judge of a character.

You are both ******* diamond as far as I can see. I'm awful at giving advice, I only hope it works out well for you.

tough it out chaps, you've demonstrated time and again that when on song you are total magicians - beat your problems and you'll both get back to kicking ass.

I have a tendancy to trivialise problems, as I am a ****. In fact, I think I am doing that right now so I'll leave off.

Autobloke · Post by **Autobloke** » Fri Apr 15, 2005 6:43 pm

We all need to go out naked into the woods and sit around a campfire screaming and hugging.

Post by **snarl** » Fri Apr 15, 2005 6:46 pm

saysadie · Post by **saysadie** » Fri Apr 15, 2005 7:29 pm

I'd fly in for that, but I won't go naked.

I'll bring a camera though.

I'm just as **** for giving advice as snarl says he is, but I feel much the same way he does about the both of you. You're both excellent people imo [though I don't actually know you in person, I think I know you guys well enough to say that].

I really do wish both of you all the best and just wish I could do something to really help out.

(I also wish I could do better than basically post a "me too" post-but it's a completely honest one. The one I posted first just didn't convey anything properly enough for me.)

*hugs* to the both of you guys.

Post by **Kaylee** » Fri Apr 15, 2005 7:56 pm

Be strong. Your problems, in the final analysis, are probably nowhere worse than in your own minds. And your mind can and does change. It happens most days. Just make sure you're there to wake up and see it.

{cuddle}

Darth Aux · Post by **Darth Aux** » Fri Apr 15, 2005 8:07 pm

chin up both, venting is not a problem. We all do it from time to time.

Everybody will rally for you and offer what support they can. This place is great, and the two of you are an integral part of that.

I'm not a huggy type of person but....checks if anyone is looking....hugs

Post by **spiderfrommars** » Fri Apr 15, 2005 11:48 pm

Besty, Impy... take care guys. You're both stars.

Eline · Post by **Eline** » Sat Apr 16, 2005 7:25 am

Take care, you guys.

I'm not sure if it will be any comfort, but things will get better. It may not be fast or good, but better.

*hug*

Dylan · Post by **Dylan** » Sat Apr 16, 2005 9:00 am

Paul, Mark, you're both stars. We're here for you, no matter what happens.

Post by **Computron** » Sat Apr 16, 2005 7:10 pm

I too offer the same, better stated, signs of support, that others mentioned.

Hope things work out for the best, even if such a statement seems so trite at the moment.

Pissin' Poonani · Post by **Pissin' Poonani** » Sat Apr 16, 2005 7:16 pm

Again, not much to say other than you're both top blokes, and I hope this all passes you by as quickly and painlessly as possible.

Optimus Prime Rib · Post by **Optimus Prime Rib** » Sat Apr 16, 2005 8:18 pm

You both know how to get ahold of me if you want to talk. If not, know that I, like everyone else here, think youre both aces and want nothing but the best for you.

Post by **Denyer** » Sun Apr 17, 2005 10:55 am

Impactor returns 2.0 wrote:I also had my uni interview today. which went okay but im still depressed

It's something to focus on—what subject you applying for?

All the best to you too, man.

Impactor returns 2.0 · Post by **Impactor returns 2.0** » Sun Apr 17, 2005 8:12 pm

Industrial design and enginering - its all cad based stuff, in the end I could end up making Aston Martins and stuff on computer.

sorry if im not sound to enthused about it all. my ex has upset me so much...

Legion · Post by **Legion** » Sun Apr 17, 2005 8:40 pm

Best First wrote:Sorry to vent.

Shuttup!!

Lord knows, half the time i reckon GD should be renamed to Venting Central and i think that given the current circumstances you're fully justified in feeling the need to rant, there's nothing to apologuise for!

Good luck dude, hope all's gone well!

Professor Smooth · Post by **Professor Smooth** » Mon Apr 18, 2005 4:09 am

snarl wrote:If nothing else, I think I'm a ****** sound judge of a character.

You are both ******* diamond as far as I can see. I'm awful at giving advice, I only hope it works out well for you.

I have a tendancy to trivialise problems, as I am a ****. In fact, I think I am doing that right now so I'll leave off.

Took the words right out of my mouth. Hope everything goes better from here on out.

sprunkner · Post by **sprunkner** » Mon Apr 18, 2005 4:27 am

You guys really don't understand how great you are.

Hard stuff gets better. Hey, cheer up-- I'll be in London with my wife in 2 weeks. (Elbows) Huh? Huh?

Eline · Post by **Eline** » Mon Apr 18, 2005 6:52 am

Impactor returns 2.0 wrote:Industrial design and enginering - its all cad based stuff, in the end I could end up making Aston Martins and stuff on computer.

That is so cool! It's what I have my master's degree in.

IronHide · Post by **IronHide** » Mon Apr 18, 2005 7:49 am

Best First wrote:
Sorry to vent.

Then whats this place for?

No, seriously.

Post by **Best First** » Mon Apr 18, 2005 9:39 am

oof.

so its done. Turns out i own quite a lot of toys... my shoulders ache.

Seeing the ex was a bit of a head ****. We ended up spending 2 hours together and got on really well - it was a bit like we were back to being ourselves again after the train wreak that was last year. And the attraction i still there. So thats kind of confusing, but we talked a lot and i think it helped lay a few things to rest - of course in the short trem at least i am missing her more again but i think in this case maybe thats a price worth paying... hopefully. I'm feeling less bitter about a lot of stuff.

So...new chapter.

But one suspects with some continuing plot threads.

thanks everyone.

Metal Vendetta · Post by **Metal Vendetta** » Mon Apr 18, 2005 10:06 am

Good luck, soldier. The ex/head**** thing will continue for some time, as you've probably deduced, but as for the rest of it you sound like you're doing well

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