Well my GF stepped over line

Predabot · Post by **Predabot** » Wed Feb 16, 2005 10:40 pm

So good to hear that you talked with your mum.

Musta been nice. I'm guessing it was rather dark outside tho. Good thing she had you by her side.

Hmm, altough a joint contains some cancer-substances, it doesn't contain as many as a cigarette i believe. And even tho hasch (or whatever the substance is in those things) gives you more of a buzz than fags it's less addictive than nic, since that is one helluva substance really.

Rebis can tell you more of this rather potent drug, wich is really a pesticide. (the last resort a bug-man takes is spraying it all in nic. Kills bloody everything. Gives one an idea why the tobacco-plant evolved that sorta substance, nobody can eat it!)

So in short: have a joint.

But nothing else dude, no alcohole or stuff either, cause it's easy taking a lot if you start feeling like being happy all the time.

Redstreak · Post by **Redstreak** » Wed Feb 16, 2005 11:57 pm

Don't know what to say, man. Keep your head and heart and don't do anything rash like you almost did. I'd advise the 'well it's her loss' position. It may help you remember that you are the better person in all this, and maybe help you walk away too.

But regardless, keep your head up. Don't do something you might regret.

Optimus Prime Rib · Post by **Optimus Prime Rib** » Thu Feb 17, 2005 4:59 am

Redstreak wrote:
But regardless, keep your head up. Don't do something you might regret.

Like fat chicks?

Redstreak · Post by **Redstreak** » Thu Feb 17, 2005 5:30 am

Optimus Prime Rib wrote:
Redstreak wrote:
But regardless, keep your head up. Don't do something you might regret.
Like fat chicks?

Well, yes, I suppose that's one thing...

Post by **Computron** » Thu Feb 17, 2005 7:23 am

This all sounds terrible Mark, but do listen to the others and shy away from quick revenge that you may regret later.

Best of wishes.

Post by **Denyer** » Thu Feb 17, 2005 10:37 am

Predabot wrote:Hmm, altough a joint contains some cancer-substances, it doesn't contain as many as a cigarette i believe.

Most cannabis in the UK comes in the form of resin...

Predabot wrote:plot your next step. To get back at someone if they have hurt you immensely is your right.

...and you sound like a snot-nosed brat.

Impactor returns 2.0 wrote:i mean bottom line is shes done somthing really ******.

Mmm. Don't know any of the details, but get the impression that it was volunteered information. Don't know whether that counts for anything—I'm not sure how much faithfulness counts to me. It'd depend on a number of other factors.

Taking verbal potshots at you about unrelated things hurts, but may just be kneejerk defensiveness. Again, you know the situation better to tell, though.

Impactor returns 2.0 wrote:i was close to topping myself this morning, but thought better of it.

No-one else is ever worth it. Hang in there, man.

Impactor returns 2.0 · Post by **Impactor returns 2.0** » Thu Feb 17, 2005 12:13 pm

I spoke to her last night in a calm manner, to go into details would take some time, and at the moment thinking about them is enough to upset me, and I have to much work to do.

Suffice to say, I still care for her alot, but im not going back, no revenge or spitting or shouting, I told her she had hurt me, and she knew it.

Last night I had this dream, a woman I loved years ago named Alex was there for what seemed like hours. bizzare I know, but I woke up feeling alot better.strange...

Post by **Best First** » Thu Feb 17, 2005 12:39 pm

feel for you mate. take care.

Señior's Covenant · Post by **Señior's Covenant** » Thu Feb 17, 2005 2:47 pm

Stay up Impy. And glad to hear you're feeling a bit on the better side.

Obfleur · Post by **Obfleur** » Thu Feb 17, 2005 5:40 pm

I don't know what to say Impster. But you're a cool guy. Hang in there

Manchester Devil · Post by **Manchester Devil** » Thu Feb 17, 2005 8:31 pm

To be honest, I have no idea what to say mate but keep a cool head and you'll soon be alright.

Impactor returns 2.0 · Post by **Impactor returns 2.0** » Fri Feb 18, 2005 12:01 am

meeting for coffee tomrow, I have to see in someone eyes, it lets me make peace with myself and move on. its not hard on me, I just have to look at someone, and say goodbye. then its done.

I feel ive been as grown up about it as possible, i havent screamed or shouted, ive been very clincal about it to be honest. i even told her we all make mistakes., I actually feel noble and good about myself.

Its sad, I still love her, but I cant go on. shame. in time ill heal myself. always the way in my life.

Predabot · Post by **Predabot** » Fri Feb 18, 2005 7:54 am

You are noble Impy.

You are being a far better man about this than me, and no doubt many a person, here on Transfans would have been.

But you are luckier than some. You have lost many times, but you have also loved many times. Not all of us are that lucky.

Youre doing fine man.

And now begins the single-life!

And Best First is single too! I see many a night of clubbin' n pubbin' coming up.

Wait..that didn't come out quite right..