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Post by Best First » Fri Sep 03, 2010 3:32 pm

Yaya wrote:One could argue that, as all public sexual expression is forbidden in Islam, that homosexuals might find more peace knowing that what goes on in the home is between that person and His Creator, leaving them less likely to be judged by their fellow man publicly. It's the reason the U.S. Army instituted the "don't ask, don't tell policy", but persons such as yourself saw this as an unfair ruling and are trying to shoot it down. Even the U.S. Army undertands there is a time and place for everything, and sometimes, things are private affairs that should not be delved into, and that no matter how much you ask or expect your fellow human being to be objective, it isn't going to happen.
So in other words - don't strive for tolerance because it will be tough to achieve.

With this attitude it's not too hard to percive why people are not picking up on the benevolence and mercy, the acceptance of people as they are or the protection of people's honour.

The above statement is call for people to continue to indulge in their worst foibles and for those who suffer as a result to lock themselves in their homes with their shame for something that HURTS NO ONE.

Also, as ever - your absolute statements are baseless - 200 years ago people were saying similar thinfs in England about women having the vote...
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Post by Best First » Fri Sep 03, 2010 3:39 pm

Yaya wrote:Actually, saw BF's post too.
not sure how you inferred offence from my post - just contrasting two assertions.
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Post by Jack Cade » Fri Sep 03, 2010 4:01 pm

Yaya wrote:Of course it has. And it certainly would get out. And when it did, that person would likely be executed or castrated.
That's a great incentive for them to turn themselves over and seek psychiatric help rather than form ever more brilliantly secretive rings and organisations so that they can kidnap and assault children to their heart's content.
Yaya wrote: And that is the acceptance that human beings are flawed in their constitution and will fall short of their aims every time.
Yeah, we have that too, but the difference is that your 'acceptance' seems to have lapsed into laziness where fundamental human rights are concerned. Human beings don't fall short of their aims 'every time' - some things actually get better. And we currently have a better level of gender equality, a higher level of tolerance and a better attitude towards sex than Islamic countries, who, you seem to be saying, are content to say, "Yeah, our women are oppressed, we're terrified to talk about sex, we hurt people for thinking or behaving differently, we're essentially a model of a people under tyranny, but that's actually all fine because human beings are flawed."
Yaya wrote:Even the U.S. Army undertands there is a time and place for everything, and sometimes, things are private affairs that should not be delved into, and that no matter how much you ask or expect your fellow human being to be objective, it isn't going to happen.
But it is happening, Yaya. Tolerance is increasing. Look at the situation ten years ago in the US and UK compared to today, particularly when it comes to homosexual rights. Striving for a better future has a tangible positive effect. Sitting in your ass and saying it's between each man and his god doesn't.

Oh, and incidentally, I'd also say that my attitude of striving for tolerance is the very reason you're able to live in places like the US. If we were as freaked out by nonconformity as Islamic states are, I don't think Muslims would be allowed to settle the way they do, and the Middle East would be a smouldering bomb site. That's not to say that intolerance isn't part of the reason the Middle East gets such a raw deal anyway - but hey, we're trying to get better.
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Post by Jack Cade » Fri Sep 03, 2010 4:12 pm

Also, Yaya, while you might not like MV's tone, it's hard to get away from the implications of the sites he's linked to. What's your take on that child bride story? You have to admit it looks pretty bad, and I'm not seeing any reference to castration.

Maybe something to ponder when you get back.
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Post by Kaylee » Fri Sep 03, 2010 4:17 pm

Don't ask don't tell is a fool's attempt to appear tolerant without actually changing anything. The burden of silence is placed on someone for something they have no earthly reason to keep secret, in the name of not upsetting the applecart for the status quo.

My tuppence haypenny worth. Fascinating read this! Absolutely fascinating.

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Post by bumblemusprime » Fri Sep 03, 2010 5:27 pm

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I was actually hoping for someone to hop on my anti-Israel, oops, sorry, I mean anti-Semitic because they're the same thing bandwagon. But this has been entertaining nonetheless.
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Post by Shanti418 » Fri Sep 03, 2010 6:27 pm

Really? I'm left feeling empty and sad. When I talk to people like Yaya who I take to be rational and logical, and we can't at least get to a "agree to disagree" point, it sucks. If Yaya is a representation of moderate Islam, this century is going to suck. hard. For there will be conflicts. It just seems like the thought processes separating spiritual life and public life in morality, in dress, etc for some Muslims can NOT be saperated. It's akin to asking a minister's daughter when she's 25 to separate love and sex. At least that's what I take out of Yaya's comments.

When, with the exception of a few comments, an entire discussion is done with civility and dignity and yet Yaya is left "deeply hurt" because we don't understand, don't empathize, and/or don't defer to his religious beliefs about what's good, true and possible in the world, I don't know where to go.

The fundamental difference, as I've said before, is the relationship between church and state. That's what creates different spheres of power and influence in public life for beliefs/morals based upon religion. When it comes to women, or clothes, or homosexuals, etc, Islam and Christianity have more similarities than differences, at least in their classical conceptions.

And Yaya, no one meant any disrespect to your religions or to your person. I view these conversations, as contentious as I may come across sometimes, as a chance to learn, grow, and understand. I hope you feel the same.

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Post by Jack Cade » Fri Sep 03, 2010 11:20 pm

I feel somewhat similar to Shanti, but at the same time I feel somewhat glad that we're at least able to discuss these things here and now, and grateful that Yaya is prepared to stand up and face these questions in the manner he has. The general public dialogue about these subjects is depressingly pointless - too full of people not prepared to even try to see the other side of the coin.
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Post by Optimus Prime Rib » Sat Sep 04, 2010 2:40 am

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Post by Yaya » Sat Sep 04, 2010 5:24 am

Shanti418 wrote:Really? I'm left feeling empty and sad. When I talk to people like Yaya who I take to be rational and logical, and we can't at least get to a "agree to disagree" point, it sucks. If Yaya is a representation of moderate Islam, this century is going to suck. hard. For there will be conflicts.
Sorry you feel that way, but I think I have already established that "I agree to disagree", as I have not called for the imposition of my beliefs on you or anyone else this entire discussion. Shouldn't that be the only time when conflict truly arises, when one culture or nation forces it's ways on the other?

You feel sad and I admittedly feel very hurt. I guess that's why they say "never discuss politics or religion at the dinner table" here in America. There will always be varying opinions about charged issues that evoke strong emotions.

I am a moderate Muslim, but I have never looked at myself as an impediment or an obstruction to the bettering of my community, or someone to make other members "feel sad" or scared, as you say. I serve my community openly as a Muslim with the talents and abilities God has bestowed upon me to the fullest of my capability. Muslim. Non-Muslim. Man. Women. Gay. Straight. It doesn't matter, I help them the way I know how. Then I go home and pray. I fast. I give the mandatory charity to the poor. I help people because they are human beings and because my religion calls for it.

There is not a creature on Earth to whom God has not extended His Mercy. If He can extend mercy to those who differ with me, does it not then suggest I too show mercy and forgiveness to them as well when they upset me or misunderstand me?

That's how I live my life. Someday, I might be rounded up with other Muslims into camps or prisons for what I believe in. It's happened before many times in history. The native Americans. The blacks. The Japanese during WWII. Being different from others, being a minority is never easy, no matter where you are. People feel threatened and scared by things that are different. I understand that. I get it.

Anyway, I just needed to finish off with that.
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Post by Jack Cade » Sat Sep 04, 2010 9:17 am

Yaya wrote:Someday, I might be rounded up with other Muslims into camps or prisons for what I believe in.
That's exactly what the principle of tolerance is here to prevent. But there will also potentially be serious disruptions to the way Muslims want to conduct themselves as Western societies fight to protect other rights besides those of religious people from religious people. It's exactly the same ethical principles that will protect and trouble Islamic communities.
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Post by Kaylee » Sat Sep 04, 2010 10:09 am

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Post by saysadie » Sat Sep 04, 2010 10:52 am

*humps*

Oh... you said hug. Myyyy mistake. :o
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Post by saysadie » Sat Sep 04, 2010 10:56 am

*humps*

Dammit, I can't seem to get it right.
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Post by bumblemusprime » Sat Sep 04, 2010 3:27 pm

I suppose that "fishing-for-cybersex" thing worked...

Shall we move this discussion to Emvee's couch?
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Post by Yaya » Sat Sep 04, 2010 4:34 pm

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Yaya wrote:Someday, I might be rounded up with other Muslims into camps or prisons for what I believe in.
That's exactly what the principle of tolerance is here to prevent. But there will also potentially be serious disruptions to the way Muslims want to conduct themselves as Western societies fight to protect other rights besides those of religious people from religious people. It's exactly the same ethical principles that will protect and trouble Islamic communities.

I'll finish with this. And that's it. :)

You're speaking about Muslims in Western societies. I agree with you that it's the tolerance that makes the West an attractive place to live. It's why I'm still here. And I think most Muslims here recognize that. If they don't find America to be what they expected, then they should go back to where they came from.

During WWII, the enemy were the Germans. Did not Islam and Muslims exist and practice their faith then too? In fact, my grandfather fought against the Germans in the war as a devout Muslim. And I can tell you that Muslims were much less Westernized then then they are now. During the 70's and 80's, it was the USSR and communism that were labelled "the great evil". To be Russian then was to be Muslim now. Did not Muslims and Islam exist then too? Hell, the U.S. gave the Taliban weapons in Afghanistan to fight against Russia.

After that, those in power, those who thrive on international conflict, needed a new enemy to surface. That new enemy is Islam. Shanti states I am irrational. But if people like Shanti would only think rationally themselves, they would understand that Islam isn't a new threat. It's been there for the past 10, 20, 100, 400 years, sometimes as allies of the free West.

Why now? Why not India. Yes, India, where a human being can be born a slave in an oppressive caste system that purges the rights of individuals according to who births them? Why no call for justice there? Why are India and the U.S. now the closest of bedfellows now? Why not certain communities in other nations, like Japan, India, and many others, where there exist a pattern of 'male dominance' that is culturally founded?

Islam becomes perhaps the easiest target for the greedy cabals that get rich when people die because Muslims are everywhere, and that idea scares people. Insidious prejudices are easily induced. The flames of hate can so easily be stoked when a people are ubiquitous.

This whole "West vs. Islam" issue that Shanti speaks about bringing him sadness? I honestly think it's overblown and has now come to the forefront primarily due to the political motivations of those in power. It's propoganda-motivated fear. If it saddens Shanti that rational Muslims can't see things a certain way, it scares the Muslims living here that rational and intelligent people have fallen for age-old propoganda tricks.

I was driving on the highway in South Carolina on my way home, and guess what I saw? A billboard, right off the interstate, saying in big bold letters "ISLAM IS RISING" with a picture of a Muslim women looking through a hijab with the widest, scariest, evil eyes you could ever see. I laughed out loud. Then, I thought back to this discussion and the posters here on this board. Then I thought about the thousands of ignorant people who see this billboard everyday to work.

It hit me hard then.

I don't ask anyone to like Islam. I give my spiel on what it is and what I am, and let others decide for themselves what they think of it.

But I would ask the question that I hope serious thought is given to, and that is, "Why now?"
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Post by Brendocon » Sat Sep 04, 2010 4:37 pm

I think tolerance is something we should all strive for.

Just so long as you strive for it in the privacy of your own home and I don't have to hear about it.

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Post by Kaylee » Sat Sep 04, 2010 5:54 pm

Ultimately it seems to be a question of how tolerant we can be of groups who, by our standards, are themselves intolerant. Hence why it's an issue now.

And, as a closing thought:

{gives Yaya a smooch}

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Post by Yaya » Sat Sep 04, 2010 8:52 pm

Back at you , Karl.

Saw these pics today. It's Angelina Jolie in Pakistan/Afghanistan. I think they are beautiful and the kind of thing I dream about. That despite different creeds and different beliefs, when the chips are down, we are all human beings that will see through differences and help each other out.

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Post by Kaylee » Sat Sep 04, 2010 10:29 pm

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Post by Optimus Prime Rib » Sun Sep 05, 2010 2:39 am

Best First wrote: something that HURTS NO ONE.
what if I like it to hurt a little? :twisted:
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Post by The Last Autobot » Sun Sep 05, 2010 8:47 am

Yaya wrote:

Saw these pics today. It's Angelina Jolie in Pakistan/Afghanistan.
If she were dressed as usual she would be stoned to death even If she went to help, so I dont know...
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Post by Impactor returns 2.0 » Sun Sep 05, 2010 11:22 am

Religion really is a crock of ******* ****. I really do detest it in everyway.

U don't need god, just be good to each other and stop being *****. It's simple!

Jolie might be a good girl but in Pakistan she would be ******* stoned for the way she lives... For no good reason other than some ******* crappy book says women are [composite word including 'f*ck'].

We don't need this **** anymore, move in and think for your self.
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Post by Metal Vendetta » Sun Sep 05, 2010 12:12 pm

Yaya wrote:After that, those in power, those who thrive on international conflict, needed a new enemy to surface. That new enemy is Islam. Shanti states I am irrational. But if people like Shanti would only think rationally themselves, they would understand that Islam isn't a new threat. It's been there for the past 10, 20, 100, 400 years, sometimes as allies of the free West.

Why now? Why not India.
I have no idea why the west would choose Islam as their enemy instead of India.

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Nope, can't think of a single reason. It's as if it was completely unprovoked.
I would have waited a ******* eternity for this!!!!
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Metal Vendetta wrote:
Yaya wrote:After that, those in power, those who thrive on international conflict, needed a new enemy to surface. That new enemy is Islam. Shanti states I am irrational. But if people like Shanti would only think rationally themselves, they would understand that Islam isn't a new threat. It's been there for the past 10, 20, 100, 400 years, sometimes as allies of the free West.

Why now? Why not India.
I have no idea why the west would choose Islam as their enemy instead of India.

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Nope, can't think of a single reason. It's as if it was completely unprovoked.
You know what? I tried being rational and understanding. I tried to look past the bad parts of Islam (and of other major religions) to the (often) perfectly cool people who just want to practice their faith. Believe me, it's been a long road to get to this point. And I still believe that Muslims have the right to build their Mosque/Community Center on that property. Freedom of religion extends to all religions, even those whose certain adherents are currently involved in armed conflict with the US.

But Yaya just asked why "not India" and Emvee responded with a picture of the Twin Towers. A "Daily Show" moment if ever there was one. Truly epic.

So, I'm gonna grab some popcorn and await the response. Yaya, man, I'm totally pulling for you on this. I hope that you'll come back with something truly remarkable. Yeah, you could just say that the actions of bin Laden don't speak to the hopes and desires of all Muslims, but I really think that you're gonna have to do (a lot) better than that.

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Post by bumblemusprime » Sun Sep 05, 2010 2:15 pm

I...

Seriously, MV? Seriously? You really think that if a couple of Christian fundamentalists had blown those buildings up, the collective US would now turn against Christian fundamentalists?

Maybe we should talk about why Islamic countries have a problem with the West and their pet state of G-Damned Israel.

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Post by Kaylee » Sun Sep 05, 2010 2:20 pm

You guys are interrupting my Yaya smooching! [/bigpicture]

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Post by Yaya » Sun Sep 05, 2010 3:44 pm

I'm dropping this now.

For some, hate runs deep. I never want to reach that level of hate for anyone, so I'm dropping this.

Let's just talk Transformers, okay?
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Post by Impactor returns 2.0 » Sun Sep 05, 2010 4:39 pm

Isn't religion great!
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