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Post by sprunkner » Fri May 04, 2007 3:44 am

Optimus Prime Rib wrote:
Professor Smooth wrote:Ah! I've got it! 9/11 was justified because it ended the Taliban's reign in Afgahnistan!
Thats probably your most insensitive statement yet.

Goodbye Transfans. This place has gone from a pleasant place to interact with people I shared a hobby with, to a never ending assholefest.
What's up with this?
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Post by Professor Smooth » Fri May 04, 2007 4:12 am

Some people only like discussing topics with people who share the same opinion. Ah well, a new member will debut at TransformersHomage in 3, 2, 1...
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Post by Shanti418 » Fri May 04, 2007 4:48 am

Professor Smooth wrote:Some people only like discussing topics with people who share the same opinion. Ah well, a new member will debut at TransformersHomage in 3, 2, 1...
But I would guess there are other people here (Ironhide and PMOP come to mind, Blacksword/Yaya on religion) who can be in the ideolgocial minority sometimes, but they don't leave. Hopefully OPR just lurks.
Best First wrote:I thought we could just meander between making well thought out points, being needlessly immature, provocative and generalist, then veer into caring about constructive debate and make a few valid points, act civil for a bit, then lower the tone again, then act offended when we get called on it, then dictate what it is and isn't worth debating, reinterpret a few of my own posts through a less offensive lens, then jaunt down whatever other path our seemingly volatile mood took us in.

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Post by Obfleur » Fri May 04, 2007 7:18 am

It doesn't matter what you discuss, someones opinion will always be in the minority.
I'm sure there's someone here who stands up when wiping, then finish it of by splashing water all over the badonkadonkdonk (I believe that someone would be a minority).
Some people can handle it - others can't.

But that's what fun about this place. Reading different viewpoints, etc.
I would probably leave if every topic went "So, do you like Spider-man 3?" and then there's fifteen posts that all just say "Yes."
Where's the fun in that?

And I'm sure that we all respect each other here, even though our opinions aren't always the same.
I know I'm not a religious person - but I have total respect for Blacksword and everyone else who's religious. :)

EDIT: And I don't get the whole "assholefest"-thingy. There's like thirty topics about random fun **** just on the first page of General Discussion?
Can't believe I'm still here.

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Post by Best First » Fri May 04, 2007 8:13 am

Which topic is this from?

To be honest, having just been labbelled an asshole (possibly fair, but anyway...) along with everyone who posts here, my reponse probably runs along the lines of '**** you and your sh!t beard".

i would mind less if he actually had made an actual point in any of this but recently his only contribution i can recall is to qoute a line in a topic and call peole names, or get really angry when anyone suggests that his personal experiences is not neccessarily the be all and end all in terms of debating a point.

Basically i think he has anger issues and given that this is his response to in fact recieving quite a bit of support over the years from people here is to storm off in a huff because he can't accept some people having differnt opinions on some things - well basically good bye and good luck, but i'm not exactly mourning the exit.
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Post by Blacksword » Fri May 04, 2007 2:45 pm

Did all of this come from the school shooting thread?
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Post by Best First » Fri May 04, 2007 3:58 pm

seems to have been going on for a while to be honest.
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Post by Shanti418 » Fri May 04, 2007 4:03 pm

That SPECIFIC quote is from the school shooting, yeah, but the themes of
Scaring off differently minded people and OPR making big sweeping generalizations and saying he's leaving having been around for awhile, like BF said.
Best First wrote:I thought we could just meander between making well thought out points, being needlessly immature, provocative and generalist, then veer into caring about constructive debate and make a few valid points, act civil for a bit, then lower the tone again, then act offended when we get called on it, then dictate what it is and isn't worth debating, reinterpret a few of my own posts through a less offensive lens, then jaunt down whatever other path our seemingly volatile mood took us in.

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Post by Predabot » Fri May 04, 2007 5:41 pm

I think he'll be back, because he luv's us in reality. :)

Just like ALL of YOU luv' ME! :D

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Post by Hot Shot » Fri May 04, 2007 6:52 pm

Predabot wrote:I think he'll be back, because he luv's us in reality. :)
He will be back. I dug around in old threads a month ago and it's not the first time he's announced leaving.

He'll be back. He ALWAYS comes back.
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Post by The Last Autobot » Fri May 04, 2007 7:03 pm

If I have a problem here I wouldnt leave. I would stay and adress the problem. Leaving dont solve things. And as many have pointed it before. Transfans as far as I remember has been the same all the time (And in occassions worst!)

Hot Shot wrote:
He'll be back. He ALWAYS comes back.
Yes, and you ve been here how long? 2 months :D
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Post by Hot Shot » Fri May 04, 2007 11:06 pm

The Last Autobot wrote:If I have a problem here I wouldnt leave. I would stay and adress the problem. Leaving dont solve things. And as many have pointed it before. Transfans as far as I remember has been the same all the time (And in occassions worst!)

Hot Shot wrote:
He'll be back. He ALWAYS comes back.
Yes, and you ve been here how long? 2 months :D
And as a follow-up, he's online right now. :p
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Post by Optimus Prime Rib » Fri May 04, 2007 11:08 pm

Hot Shot wrote:
The Last Autobot wrote:If I have a problem here I wouldnt leave. I would stay and adress the problem. Leaving dont solve things. And as many have pointed it before. Transfans as far as I remember has been the same all the time (And in occassions worst!)

Hot Shot wrote:
He'll be back. He ALWAYS comes back.
Yes, and you ve been here how long? 2 months :D
And as a follow-up, he's online right now. :p
Yeah you know. I thought to myself 'Maybe Im a bit oversensitive to things lately. Ill go by and check on things and see if maybe I was just a bit rash." then I see things like Paul basically telling me to go [composite word including 'f*ck'] myself. Thanks for that. Because, you know, I was never cool to you when you were really down.
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Post by IronHide » Sat May 05, 2007 4:09 am

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But I would guess there are other people here (Ironhide and PMOP come to mind, Blacksword/Yaya on religion) who can be in the ideolgocial minority sometimes, but they don't leave. Hopefully OPR just lurks.
It boils down to how well you can ignore the overabundance of sarcasm. Some handle it better than others.

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Post by The Last Autobot » Sat May 05, 2007 4:38 am

Yeah you know. I thought to myself 'Maybe Im a bit oversensitive to things lately. Ill go by and check on things and see if maybe I was just a bit rash." then I see things like Paul basically telling me to go **** myself. Thanks for that. Because, you know, I was never cool to you when you were really down.
If you have a problem just put it here. I know many will try to help you out.

I would.
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Post by Leatherneck » Sat May 05, 2007 4:50 am

i'd like to note that feelings and emotions are over rated and only serve to get your lace panties in a bunch

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Post by sprunkner » Sat May 05, 2007 4:51 am

There is nastiness from both sides now. Hooray.

I like Joey and I want him to stay. The guy made a few comments (about guns and boars) and took offense at pointed, but insensitive replies. That's not a reason to split a group of friends.

If you're set on leaving the board, then I can't stop you. But I thought it might be worth it to question whether we've been too harsh. I've spilled some deep, painful stuff here on this board, as has Joey. Maybe we should be a bit more sensitive? And, on the other side, more open about when something is hurtful?
Predabot wrote:I think he'll be back, because he luv's us in reality. Smile

Just like ALL of YOU luv' ME!
That is... not comforting.

(We need a "cheap shot at Predabot" emoticon.)
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Post by Aaron Hong » Sat May 05, 2007 5:19 am

sprunkner wrote:
(We need a "cheap shot at Predabot" emoticon.)
Best I could do:
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Post by Hot Shot » Sat May 05, 2007 6:40 am

Aaron Hong wrote:
sprunkner wrote:
(We need a "cheap shot at Predabot" emoticon.)
Best I could do:
*Anything you can do, I can do better* :p
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Post by The Last Autobot » Sat May 05, 2007 7:01 am

You have some issues lad.

*Please draw a picture of a person in this page*
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Post by Predabot » Sat May 05, 2007 8:30 am

I friggin' hate cats. For real. :o

vooff vooff!!

(Opr where's the image of that evil, but now dead, dog of yours?)

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Post by KingMob » Sat May 05, 2007 10:32 am

Hot Shot wrote:
Aaron Hong wrote:
sprunkner wrote:
(We need a "cheap shot at Predabot" emoticon.)
Best I could do:
*Anything you can do, I can do better* :p
Oh God, I can't wait to read your slightly creepy story about all the members of this board being Internets Flame Warriors then.

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Post by Best First » Sat May 05, 2007 11:42 am

Optimus Prime Rib wrote:Yeah you know. I thought to myself 'Maybe Im a bit oversensitive to things lately. Ill go by and check on things and see if maybe I was just a bit rash." then I see things like Paul basically telling me to go **** myself. Thanks for that. Because, you know, I was never cool to you when you were really down.
so, how exactly would you have preferred i respond you you calling everyone assholes?

how would you respond if some guy walked up to you in the pub and said the same to you?

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Post by Kaylee » Sat May 05, 2007 11:52 am

I can rarely think of a time when someone has contributed to a discussion and not made a point definitely worth listening to, there might be some issues around tact however which could do with being reexamined on both sides (which I know I've been guilty of before also).

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Post by Blacksword » Sat May 05, 2007 3:05 pm

Optimus Prime Rib wrote:Yeah you know. I thought to myself 'Maybe Im a bit oversensitive to things lately. Ill go by and check on things and see if maybe I was just a bit rash." then I see things like Paul basically telling me to go **** myself. Thanks for that. Because, you know, I was never cool to you when you were really down.
I'm not sure you were around when I was a more regular contributor (things are getting fuzzy in my old age), but I've had some drop down drag out rows over certain issues with some of the guys here, Paul included. I may be politically left-wing, but I'm also a Christian on a board which has decent number of vocal, articulate, atheists. MV and I in particular have had some harsh words. And so have Paul and I, because when it comes down to it if Paul disagrees with you on something strongly, he's not one to mince words. It's who he is. I find his approach a bit confrontational at times, but he doesn't do it to purposely piss people off. I raised (a number of) objections to the way religious views were treated on the board but after a few more rows Paul and I sorted things out and I still post here whenever I can. Paul and I see eye to eye on a lot of stuff but on religion we're almost dead opposite, but we can still be friends. Yeah, he can be a royal (or would that be republican?) pain in the arse (especially because he's often right, and is good at pointing out what's wrong with your argument) but he's a good guy.

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Post by sprunkner » Sat May 05, 2007 5:02 pm

Karl Lynch wrote:I can rarely think of a time when someone has contributed to a discussion and not made a point definitely worth listening to, there might be some issues around tact however which could do with being reexamined on both sides (which I know I've been guilty of before also).
Word.
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Post by Brendocon » Sat May 05, 2007 5:20 pm

Personally, I think you're all *****.

But then I'm a ****, too. So I'm in no position to judge.
Grrr. Argh.

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Post by Best First » Sat May 05, 2007 8:12 pm

man, you just called me a republican... :o
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Post by Blacksword » Sat May 05, 2007 10:50 pm

I just can't see you being a royalist, though I could be wrong.

You could call me a Conservative if that'll make you feel better. ;)
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Post by Hound » Sun May 06, 2007 12:12 am

Brendocon wrote:Personally, I think you're all *****.

But then I'm a ****, too. So I'm in no position to judge.
I'm not ****!

...or am I? :eh?:
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