Kinda (well I am) feeling a bit down.

sprunkner · Post by **sprunkner** » Tue May 17, 2005 2:14 pm

The creepy thing is that I got married and then, in succession, about three of you broke up with your women... It wasn't me!

Sorry to hear that, Snowcat. Stick with your friends to pull you through.

Snowcat · Post by **Snowcat** » Tue May 17, 2005 2:25 pm

Right, task #1. Find friends...

Darth Aux · Post by **Darth Aux** » Tue May 17, 2005 7:06 pm

Thanks guys,

Best First wrote:

i've had teh experience before where girls get just as carried away as boys with the passion of it all at the start, but then start to question whta the relationship means in terms of things beyond physical/immediate attraction.

This can sometimes lead to questions of how much you like them as a person and even feelinga bit used, despite the fact they were perfectly willing at the time.

Hence the brakes get slammed on and the gfocus shifts to getting to know each other.

Its sort of understandable, but frustrating.

But if you lek here worth peristing with i think, at least for a bit.

hoppe that makes any kind of sense.

Good luck mate.

Thanks BF I like what you've said and it helps.

Snowcat wrote:

Well, I know how the "down" feeling feels.

I`m getting divorced, my 9 month (!!!!) marriage is over. The ex has found that she doesn`t want to be married after all, you`d think after a 3 year relationship she could have worked it out sooner.

Sorry to here that mate.

Karl Lynch wrote:

Auxy, have you considered that maybe you're just feeling emphatuation rather then 'love'?

I think you're right

Karl Lynch wrote:

In the final analysis, its only a brief relationship and you have many other relationships in your life which you still have and will continue to have for many years I hope. You've got lots of good things in your life. If this one shouldn't work out, then it won't stop the sun from rising tomorrow and it won't make you any less lucky or give you any real reason to feel sad considering all the reasons you have to be happy

Thankyou Karl

I'm going to go with the friends option and see where we go.

Both Karl and Besty have hit the nail on the head. I sorted a lot out in my head in work today, your support and comments have helped me put a finger on how it all got like this.

ok I'm off to play Forza Motor Sport

Post by **Best First** » Wed May 18, 2005 8:48 am

glad to help.