Over

Optimus Prime Rib · Post by **Optimus Prime Rib** » Fri Dec 17, 2004 3:09 am

update for anyone who cares, they just got in at the In-Laws. everything went ok. I was terrified I wouldnt see my family again. First time away for a long time and all.

Post by **Best First** » Sat Dec 18, 2004 11:01 pm

yeah... so anyway... its over.

I believe her - her feelings have changed - i still don't quite get why, but maybe thats not that important, what maters is i believe her, andi have to let her go. We talked a bit this afternoon and exchanged xmas presents - i have a nice shirt.

so its over.

gutted, but i know, and i went out like a muthe f*cking gentleman, of which i am vaguely proud.

So sad i will never make love to that beuatiful girl again.

anyone goyt any fit singlemates? preferably female.

Thankyou all so much - your support has means the world to me.

gonna be weird for a while...

Post by **spiderfrommars** » Sat Dec 18, 2004 11:33 pm

Mate, you've taken this with a dignity and bravery that I can only hope I could've done. You rock.

It's hard it's painful... but now, its onwards and upwards.

Post by **Kaylee** » Sat Dec 18, 2004 11:34 pm

{cuddle}

Post by **Best First** » Sat Dec 18, 2004 11:39 pm

spiderfrommars wrote:Mate, you've taken this with a dignity and bravery that I can only hope I could've done. You rock.

you'd do fine sunshine. and that privalaged to know you thing? Back atcha.

and that goes double for you Mr Lynch.

i sincerely cannot thank the people of this board enough for their suppirt - if it was not for my friends i would nothave dealt with this, but your advice and consoloation have been inspirational. I'm sure there is **** still to come but i feel bettre knowing there are wonderful people out there like you lot who are theer when i need them.

Post by **Kaylee** » Sat Dec 18, 2004 11:43 pm

wow... Mr...

{sniff}

I'm so proud... I haven't been called that since last time I was in court on indecent exposure charges...

:D:D

saysadie · Post by **saysadie** » Sat Dec 18, 2004 11:44 pm

Hey, good on you BF.

I hope things go alright for you.

Post by **Best First** » Sun Dec 19, 2004 12:23 am

f*cking hell... so do i...

saysadie · Post by **saysadie** » Sun Dec 19, 2004 1:13 am

Okay... they will go well. They have no choice...

You rock man. And you're not alone, as the posts in this thread will attest to. If y'ever need to vent you've got a lot of friends here and elsewhere who care and will hear it.

Dylan · Post by **Dylan** » Sun Dec 19, 2004 10:02 pm

I'm sorry to hear that Paul. It sounds like you handled it well, and that's worth a lot.

I wish you all the best, we'll all be here for you when you need us.

Take care.

Brendocon · Post by **Brendocon** » Sun Dec 19, 2004 10:25 pm

spiderfrommars wrote:You rock.

What the Bowie fan said, matey.

You're a shining example of dignity and all that other stuff.

All the future best and other stuff that people have said much better than I could already.

Post by **Denyer** » Mon Dec 20, 2004 12:24 am

Best First wrote:i went out like a muthe f*cking gentleman, of which i am vaguely proud.

It's the best kind of satisfaction.

As Brend said, everyone else has pretty much said everything... but we love ya, big man.

Optimus Prime Rib · Post by **Optimus Prime Rib** » Mon Dec 20, 2004 6:21 am

Best First wrote: anyone goyt any fit singlemates? preferably female.

Sorry to hear all of this Paul. However, my sister in law is single now

perhaps if she went to the UK I could convince Jessy to do some traveling lol

Post by **Best First** » Mon Dec 20, 2004 9:20 am

thanks everyone.

guess i just gotta try and move on now - that will be the hardest bit. i miss her a lot.

Eline · Post by **Eline** » Mon Dec 20, 2004 9:39 am

of course you will. But you're strong enough to go on with your life.

And we're always here for you, in both good and bad times.

*hug*

Hound · Post by **Hound** » Mon Dec 20, 2004 7:23 pm

I feel that maybe these wise words are appropriate.

Dry Your Eyes

In one single moment your whole life can turn 'round
I stand there for a minute starin' straight into the ground
Lookin' to the left slightly, then lookin' back down
World feels like it's caved in - proper sorry frown
Please let me show you where we could only just be, for us
I can change and I can grow or we could adjust
The wicked thing about us is we always have trust
We can even have an open relationship, if you must
I look at her she stares almost straight back at me
But her eyes glaze over like she's lookin' straight through me
Then her eyes must have closed for what seems an eternity
When they open up she's lookin' down at her feet

Dry your eyes mate
I know it's hard to take but her mind has been made up
There's plenty more fish in the sea
Dry your eyes mate
I know you want to make her see how much this pain hurts
But you've got to walk away now
It's over

So then I move my hand up from down by my side
It's shakin', my life is crashin' before my eyes
Turn the palm of my hand up to face the skies
Touch the bottom of her chin and let out a sigh
'Cause I can't imagine my life without you and me
There's things I can't imagine doin', things I can't imagine seein'
It weren't supposed to be easy, surely
Please, please, I beg you please
She brings her hands up towards where my hands rested
She wraps her fingers round mine with the softness she's blessed with
She peels away my fingers, looks at me and then gestures
By pushin' my hand away to my chest, from hers

Dry your eyes mate
I know it's hard to take but her mind has been made up
There's plenty more fish in the sea
Dry your eyes mate
I know you want to make her see how much this pain hurts
But you've got to walk away now
It's over

And I'm just standin' there, I can't say a word
'Cause everythin's just gone
I've got nothin'
Absolutely nothin'

Tryin' to pull her close out of bare desperation
Put my arms around her tryin' to change what she's sayin'
Pull my head level with hers so she might engage in
Look into her eyes to make her listen again
I'm not gonna ******', just ******' leave it all now
'Cause you said it'd be forever and that was your vow
And you're gonna let our things simply crash and fall down
You're well out of order now, this is well out of town
She pulls away, my arms are tightly clamped round her waist
Gently pushes me back and she looks at me straight
Turns around so she's now got her back to my face
Takes one step forward, looks back, and then walks away

Dry your eyes mate
I know it's hard to take but her mind has been made up
There's plenty more fish in the sea
Dry your eyes mate
I know you want to make her see how much this pain hurts
But you've got to walk away now
It's over

I know in the past I've found it hard to say
Tellin' you things, but not tellin' straight
But the more I pull on your hand and say
The more you pull away

Dry your eyes mate
I know it's hard to take but her mind has been made up
There's plenty more fish in the sea
Dry your eyes mate
I know you want to make her see how much this pain hurts
But you've got to walk away now.

Optimus Prime Rib · Post by **Optimus Prime Rib** » Mon Dec 20, 2004 10:21 pm

I love that song..the first time I heard it here I was like "HOLY CRAP THIS IS GOOD"

Post by **snarl** » Tue Dec 21, 2004 11:46 am

Dry your eyes sucks ass.

The Streets is a massive load of **** imo.

Post by **Denyer** » Tue Dec 21, 2004 4:31 pm

Whereas at least Goldie Lookin' Chain don't take their lyrical content seriously...

Brendocon · Post by **Brendocon** » Tue Dec 21, 2004 4:35 pm

GLC are great. But that's another argument for another day.

The Streets are cack...

Impactor returns 2.0 · Post by **Impactor returns 2.0** » Tue Dec 21, 2004 4:42 pm

snarl wrote:Dry your eyes sucks ass.

The Streets is a massive load of **** imo.

damm right!

Optimus Prime Rib · Post by **Optimus Prime Rib** » Tue Dec 21, 2004 5:22 pm

heres a spoon, eat my ass I like that song lol.

Hound · Post by **Hound** » Tue Dec 21, 2004 5:29 pm

not doubting the shiteness of the streets, however, the lyrics are fitting at this time.

I *luuuurve* GLC.

Post by **Best First** » Tue Dec 21, 2004 5:39 pm

hmm - isn't Skinner just a **** who state sthe obvious?

broke up?

gotta get over it?

well done mate!

grumble grumble

Metal Vendetta · Post by **Metal Vendetta** » Tue Dec 21, 2004 6:34 pm

I find Skinner oddly comforting. Though those lyrics are probably the last thing you want to hear right now...I saw Sunshine of the Spotless Mind this weekend and I was crying like a baby

Post by **spiderfrommars** » Tue Dec 21, 2004 10:33 pm

Thats a very sweet, very touching film.

Hound · Post by **Hound** » Tue Dec 21, 2004 11:41 pm

Jim Carey is fantastic in that film. He should have got some award-type recognition

Dead Head · Post by **Dead Head** » Wed Dec 22, 2004 12:07 am

Mike "The Streets" Skinner is a genius for proving so many people are amusical fools.

Truely inexplicable.

Post by **Best First** » Wed Dec 22, 2004 9:54 am

mmm - bitterness appears to be creeping in - i can't stop thinking of all the commitments she made, all the things she said, and feeling really let down.

think i am going to have to bump into her at the flat tonight. bollocks.

Post by **Computron** » Wed Dec 22, 2004 10:11 am

Best First wrote:mmm - bitterness appears to be creeping in - i can't stop thinking of all the commitments she made, all the things she said, and feeling really let down.

think i am going to have to bump into her at the flat tonight. bollocks.

*Presses the "that'll end poorly" button*

Seriously, what will that accomplish? The chances she'll suddenly reverse course and accept your point of view are virtually nil, given what you've said. Going there will simply result in an emotional argument that'll hurt everyone.

Best to let sleeping dogs lie and deal with this in other ways, such as others here have mentioned, such as the letter.